In the movie Definitely, Maybe Will Hayes has three great loves of his life, but he cannot seem to quite get it right. If you were Will's dating coach, what advice would you give him?

I personally think that Will needs to work out exactly what he is looking for as far as women and relationships go. He needs to sit down and picture his perfect woman and list all the qualities that she should have. Then I'd advise him to simply date a number of women until he comes across one that really captivates him and take it from there.

What are your top 3 tips for someone looking to get back into the dating game

• I highly advise them to get out there and mix with the crowd. Be open to any social activities. Instead of staying home on a Friday or Saturday night feeling sorry for yourself, call up some friends and check out some new lounges, bars or clubs.

• Talk to people at every opportunity. When you are social, people will be drawn to you. And you never know who you might run into next time you go to the shops. People are only strangers, if you choose them to be. Next time you see a cute guy or a girl at a cafe, say hello.

• Don't settle for fate to bring you back to them. If you want to see that person again, get their contact details. Don't be shy about it and don't make it a big deal. Simply say, "Hey it was good talking to you, we should get in touch later on, how can I reach you?" Get their number and/or email. Follow them up in a few days time and get to know them over the phone or e-mail.

Getting dumped sucks – what are some classic dating mistakes men and women make when in a relationship

Some single men and women tend to get very needy and show too many feelings early on in the relationship. This tends to do the opposite of the intended effect and can drive some potential partners away.

Doing such things like calling or sending SMS too often, confessing your love too soon, putting up with bad behaviour and allowing yourself to be a "door mat" can spell disaster for many young relationships.

The best advice here is to let the relationship develop into one naturally, do not force or rush it.

By Alex Nova
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